Abstinence, what percentage of this generation practices it? I don't know, but 'm sure the number is fairly low. Among my age group (late teens to early twenties) I know very few virgins. Has abstinence died? Is it an old fashioned belief only followed by highly religious people? I don't believe so.
Some believe that waiting until marriage to have sex is impossible. I've had many people tell me that I will end up having sex before I get married. There are probably a few that don't even believe or at least are not sure that I am still a virgin. But, I will abstain and I am a virgin. There are some good reasons to wait until marriage and it is possible.
Reasons to Wait
No Regrets
Many young people have sex, end up breaking up at some point down the line and regret it. There are other reasons why sex ends up a regret sometimes and it's one of those things that's impossible to take back.
Love You For You
This may come across as a slightly cynical reason. Practicing abstinence means that you can be 100% sure that your significant other is not with you for what he/she gets in bed. I know what some of you are thinking: that there is no way your partner could ever feel that way and I'm not saying they do. However, there are a few people like that and they often don't let it show until it's already over.
A Special Moment, A Special Gift
A wedding is one of the best days in a person's life, and of course, everyone looks to their wedding night. Just imagine how much more special that night would be if it were your first time making love. What better wedding gift to your new spouse than your virginity. It's a gift you can only give once, and to only one person.
No Babies
The only, only way you can be completely sure that you or your girlfriend won't get pregnant is by not having sex. There are plenty of different birth control methods. However, none of them is infallible. There is always at least a slight risk of conception. If you practice abstinence though, there will be zero risk.
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